Humour, Adventuring and Mystery

Perhaps the modern mother needs not only a fairer deal, but help in relinquishing the temperament of obsessive productivity. Rather than managing our children, we need to relax into their company, take pleasure from the tiny transactions of baby-days, the pleasures of play. We seem to have lost a capacity for tenderness and time-wasting, obsessed with doing more than feeling, distracted by a society that measures purpose in little boxes and success by how quickly they can be ticked off. Has the modern mother lost the ability to find in her mothering the humour, the adventuring, the mystery of that experience?

From an article by Joanne Murray-Smith, reprinted in the book ‘Buddhism for Mothers of Small Children’ by Sarah Napthali

It’s the last day of the year, which means in the next week we’ll be bombarded by ‘New Year, New You’ and goal-setting advice. Which is absolutely fine if you’re using it to build your business or lose a few pounds.

But one of the unique challenges we face as both business women and mums is balancing the organised, target-driven aspects of our lives with the chaotic worlds of our little children. It’s a tricky line to walk along and I know there will be times in 2011 when I slip into ‘managing’ my toddlers. Even though it’s frustrating and pointless for all of us!

Sarah Napthali says she’s printed off this quotation and stuck it on her fridge with the words humour, adventuring and mystery underlined. I think I might do the same!

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How To Be Successful in Business

I’ve had a few days away from Business Plus Baby and that’s given my brain a little space to wander over the last year. What has worked well? What wasn’t so great? How can I build on the successes in the coming year? What can I learn from the things that weren’t so successful?

One of the questions that often comes up for me is this: what can I learn from people who are already successful in small business?

What separates people whose businesses are growing from those that are struggling? And how can I build those keys to success into my projects?

This is my list of what those successful business owners have…

They have focus

They can focus on what they want to achieve and eliminate most distractions. You won’t find too many successful business people wasting time on Facebook – they’ll be using it just enough to build relationships and no more. Time management is essential, especially in online businesses where the distraction factor is huge.

They work hard

People who have built successful businesses have almost always worked really hard over a period of years. If you look closely at those people who look like they are overnight successes, you’ll see years of preparation. Even if that’s just building a network of contacts or learning the right skills.

They connect with other people

The more I learn about business, the more I see it’s about relationships. You need to connect with other people so you can refer clients to each other, bounce ideas off each other, find business services like web design and accountancy and to work on joint ventures.

They do something different

It’s so tempting to be inspired what others are are doing and follow in their footsteps, but to stand out you have to be different. You don’t have to be totally original, just bring something new to your area, or do something better than everyone else. Successful people have the confidence to stand out from the crowd.

They think big

Once successful business people have got a business that’s working nicely locally, they’ll be planning how to go national. Then global! These days, when I come up with a new plan I always ask myself “Am I thinking big enough?”

Thinking big doesn’t have to mean growing a huge traditional bricks-and-mortar business, it might mean having the courage to approach the national press instead of your local paper. Or having the courage to network with more senior or influential people in your field.

They aren’t afraid to fail

If you’re running a business you’re going to fail at some point. When you’re employed you have an organisation around you to give you direction and cushion you from some of the knocks. When it’s you’re business you’re on your own. The secret isn’t to avoid failure – if you never fail, you’re not trying new things or being different. The secret is to fail fast, get over it quickly and apply what you’ve learnt in your next project.

They have one eye on the money

When starting a new project, always pay attention to how it’s going to make you money. It’s so easy to get carried away with an exciting project where you’ll work with inspiring people. But if you don’t keep one eye on how you’re going to make money from it they you won’t be in business for long. Successful people know that many opportunities will come along, but only a few will be profitable enough to be worth their time.

They are persistent

Most people give up to soon. Sometimes the key to success is to  stick at it longer than everyone else!

Do you have any more for my list? Please leave me a comment and let me know…

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Can I Ask You A Question?

I’ve always aimed to make Business Plus Baby as useful as I possibly can. But in 2011, I want to try even harder.

So to make sure I give you exactly what you want, I’d really love to know a little more about you and your business.

I’d be really grateful if you could take my short survey. It’s just 6 questions long (and 5 of those have multiple choice answers), so it’ll only take a couple of minutes.

Please click here to take the survey

Thank you very much, you’re a star!

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My name is Crissi, I am a self-employed mum of 2 girls aged 4 and 7. My hubby and I are partners in Assist Computing based in our home in Verwood, Dorset. Our eldest daughter is in full time school, she has Dyspraxia and can be a little more challenging or more dependant than the average 7 year old. Our youngest daughter attends pre-school for 3 hours per day so is home with me most of the time.

Our house is like a circus – juggling is a necessary requirement! Continue reading “I Started a Business With A Baby: Crissi Burnell of Assist Computing”

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Many mums get their inspiration to become self-employed whilst on maternity leave, and a large number will go on to have more children, after they have set up their business. But are you aware of the rules regarding self-employment during a maternity pay period? In follow-up to her previous article “Self-employed? Protect your right to maternity allowance” Frances Weir (left) from bigbooklittlebookcardboardbox – a green affordable children’s bookcase, designed to encourage an early love of reading – today looks at earning from self-employment during your maternity pay period. Continue reading “Self-Employment During Your Maternity Pay Period”

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