Why Jen Started Her Family Friendly Business

If you’re like me, you’ll look on mums with school age kids with just a bit of envy. Now I know that working around school hours has its own problems.  But at least by that stage I’ll have from 9.30 to 3pm free every day and I won’t be squeezing my work into nap times.  Sounds wonderful!

But life doesn’t always go so smoothly, as Jen Sargeant of Jen’s Nappy Cakes has found.

“I started this business as my son Jimmy has autistic spectrum disorder (ASD) and many conditions within that spectrum. He also has terminal Crohn’s disease and colitus. He goes to a special needs school and because of his conditions we are at the hospital regularly for check-ups. I just found it completely impossible to get a job to work around my family and because my son wouldn’t go to a carer.

He was diagnosed with ASD at 7 years and terminal Crohn’s disease and colitus at the age of 9 years, so we have had a lot of time in hospital and I have had to concentrate on him keeping well. I fit the business in around my family when my son is at his special needs school.”

Jimmy is now eleven (that’s Jimmy in the picture) and Jen also has a daughter, Cheree, who is fourteen. Jen has always been creative but stumbled across nappy and towel cakes on American websites when she was looking for a business idea.

“I decided to do the nappy cakes and occasion cakes as they are not very well known in this country as yet and I want to change that.”

If you haven’t come across nappy cakes before, they look like celebration cakes, but are made up of the bits and pieces you might give as a gift to a new or expectant mum. Jen doesn’t stop with cakes though, here’s her sock bouquet.

nappy cake

Jen also makes arrangements for charity auctions and raffles as she believes it’s good for businesses to support others.  And she sent Danni Minogue a nappy cake when her son was born last week.

“My tips for other mums are to work at it every day, put the word out about what you do to as many places as possible, network like crazy, swap links with as many companies as possible. BE PATIENT!”

And her plans for the future?

“I want to eventually open a shop, as at present I work from home and my creations are everywhere! I would love to achieve is to have the nappy cakes and any occasion cakes in the large retail shops, which is something I’m working on at present.”

Jen, we wish you every success!

I Started a Business with a Baby: Louise Guinda of Safe Dreams

Tell us a little about your business

I designed a product called the Safe Dreams Breathable Cot Wrap which is a safe alternative to cot bumpers.  It is made from breathable padded mesh, covers all four sides of the cot and is perfect for keeping arms, legs and dummies in.

What was your job before starting your business?

I was an accountant.  It wasn’t a job which I really enjoyed but I had passed lots of exams and was earning good money so it was hard to leave and start all over again.

How did you go from your old career to your new business?

I didn’t have a job to go back to as I had been living in Argentina and came back to the UK while I was pregnant and just did a bit of temping.

What were your reasons for starting a business?

I had always wanted to, my dad is an entrepreneur so it probably runs in my blood.  I just could never decide what kind of business to start.  I also couldn’t face putting my son in nursery to go back to working in a profession which I didn’t really enjoy and this gave me the kick I needed.

Did you use any childcare?

My son has been going to nursery for two afternoons a week for around a year now and he is just about to start going three full days a week.   Up until now it has been very tough fitting everything in; I have been mainly working during his nap times and after he has gone to bed.  Its only now when I find myself having to work when he is around that I decided its time to put him in nursery for three full days.  He has recently dropped his daytime nap which has been a huge disaster for me!

How did you get your business idea?

I got the idea after I had a scary experience with my son when he was very young, I found him blue in the face and struggling to breathe as a result of sleeping with his face buried into his cot bumper.  After I had stopped using the bumper he would wake up many times through the night with his arms stuck between the cot bars.  I spoke to lots of people and found that they were having the same problem, they were doing crazy things like sticking cardboard onto the cot bars.  I found that there were breathable bumpers available in the USA and I had one sent over, it solved the problem but was incredibly ugly.  I decided to design a safe but stylish product that would look good in the cot.

What were your challenges and how did you overcome them?

My biggest challenge has been lack of knowledge: I knew nothing about bringing a product to market.  I couldn’t even sew to make a prototype, I had no idea about manufacturing and spent six months trying to get my product made in the UK when it is just too labour intensive and is much more suited to being made in China.  I didn’t understand how marketing and PR work and had very little experience of selling.

What training, information or advice did you need to get started?

I went to Business Link but to be honest they didn’t really know what to do with me.  My biggest challenge at the beginning was finding a manufacturer and they couldn’t help with that.  The best advice I’ve had has been from other mum inventors whom I’ve met on Twitter and forums like Mumsclub and She’s Ingenious.

If you could give one  piece of advice to a mum of a baby or toddler starting a business, what would it be?

The most important advice I have been given is to believe in yourself.  When you are trying to promote your business, you really have to shout about your achievements and how great you are which is very difficult when you have been brought up to be modest and not too cocky.  It is uncomfortable at first but, as they say, ‘fake it until you make it’.

I started a business with a baby: Karen Fullerton of Chloe’s Mummy

Tell us a little about your business

Chloe’s Mummy sells handmade personalised photo board books for babies and toddlers.  Customers upload their text and photos to make a family photo album for little one to enjoy, a story book of their fun little lifes and all their clever achievements or a special keepsake book for a special person e.g. a “I Love My Daddy Because…” book to be read at bedtime and given to dad on Father’s Day.  I opened for business in Nov 2009 (when Chloe was 2) and have been making my books in my spare room ever since.

What was your job before starting your business?

I have had various jobs including High School Teacher, IT Trainer and Network Manager but was a stay at home mum to 1 year old Chloe when I had my business idea.

How did you go from your old career to your new business?

I handed in my notice whilst on maternity leave as I wanted to spend as much time as possible with Chloe.  It is such a personal decision but I fully believe you have to do what feels right for you and your family and totally ignore any comments from the outside world.

What were your reasons for starting a business?

My desire to spend my days with Chloe but continue to provide the little extras in life for my family motivated me to find a way to make extra money.  Also, as any mum will tell you we are strange creatures of guilt.  Those of us that go back to work feel they should be at home and those of us that stay at home feel like they should be working.  We are all just striving to find the perfect balance for ourselves.

Did you use any childcare?

Don’t use any chidcare but my mum is sometimes called upon for an hour or two to let me make some phone calls or do some last minute orders and my husband is so supportive during evenings and weekends (he also created and maintains my website).  It was fairly easy to manage my time in the first couple of months but since Chloe has stopped her daytime naps I am having to be stricter with myself in the evenings to get the job done.

How did you get your business idea?

I was looking for a personalised board book to give as a gift when Chloe’s nephew was born but couldn’t find one anywhere.  With all the photo gift companies out there I was surprised at this gap in the market so ended up making my own books for Chloe and her friends.  When anyone asked where the books were bought the answer of course was “Chloe’s Mummy makes them” and so my business and it’s name was created!

What were your challenges and how did you overcome them?

Getting appropriate suppliers for the raw materials required to make my books, especially with no contacts in the business.  However, all that it took was a little perseverance and much time on the phone.

What training, information or advice did you need to get started? Did you get this, if so where from?

Needed info on setting up my own business which I got from HMRC and info regarding toy safety regulations and the CE Mark with which Trading Standards were very helpful.

If you could give one piece of advice to a mum of a baby or toddler starting a business, what would it be?

Definitely go for it!  If you don’t you will constantly be wondering what if.

www.chloesmummy.co.uk

How Rachel is Helping Mums of Tiny Little Babies

We all have happy memories of our baby’s milestones. The first smile, the first giggle, eating solids, sitting up. But what if your baby’s milestones were having your first cuddle at ten days of age or coming off a ventilator?

Rachel Ashley’s son Joshua was born premature in 2006 with an underlying heart condition. He was very ill and was taken straight into the neonatal intensive care unit (NICU) where he spent the next four weeks. Rachel says:

“A nurse on the unit advised me to keep a record of his progress and my feelings and gave me a blank notebook to record this in. Something so simple became very important.

That notebook holds the most precious memories and milestones that my ‘normal’ baby record book did not have pages for, for example on his ‘first’ photo he was on CPAP* with cardiac monitors, lines and a nasogastric tube. I didn’t have my first cuddle until he was ten days old, his first bath was by a nurse on NICU and we spent his first christmas on the unit.”

Rachel created a special baby record book for other mums of premature babies, which you can buy at tinylittlebaby.co.uk. It has those pages that other record books don’t, plus an extra large keepsake box to store the bulky mementoes that come from the NICU.For each book that’s sold, Rachel makes a donation to charities that support babies who need special care.

“To keep him alive when he was born, Joshua needed Curosurf, Nitric Oxide, Dopamine, Frusemide, Spirolatctone, Iv Benzyl Penicillin, Gentamicini, Mettronidazole, Aciclovir, Flucloxacillin and IV Dextrose not forgeting the high frequency osculation and ventilation to keep him breathing and phototherapy for jaundice.  It was nice to look back through my own note book and see the lines and IV’s be slowly removed day by day as he came off the cocktail of medication. It makes you realise how far he has come.”

I wanted to write this post about Rachel and Joshua for two reasons. Firstly, if anyone you know has a premature baby, then  you might be able to offer them some support by telling them about this book, or even buy it for them.

Secondly, I had two healthy full-term babies. I don’t know of anyone who has had a premature baby, so I have no personal experience. But reading about those milestones that I totally took for granted (needing ventilation and a cocktail of drugs, that first cuddle after they are born) made me realise how lucky I am.

“Joshua is now three-and-a-half and doing really well (as you can see from the photo). He has a lot of ongoing issues – a congenital heart defect not related to him being premature and he has hemipligia and epilepsy cause by bilateral interventricular heamorrages ( two brain bleeds he had at three and five days old, one on each sides of his brain). He is still under a peadiatrician, cardiologist, neurologist urologist, epilepsy nurse, physiotherapist, and a speech & language therapist though it sound a lot worse than it is. To see him running around you would never guess he had any ongoing health problems.”

Many mums have business ideas that spring from personal passion or experience. I don’t think you could get much more personal than this.


Rachel Ashley is the owner of tinylittlebaby.co.uk

*CPAP stands for  continuous positive airway pressure it delivers pressurized air to the baby’s lungs through small tubes in the baby’s nose or through a tube that has been inserted into his windpipe. CPAP helps a baby breathe, but it does not breathe for him.

I Started A Business With A Baby – Karen Sherr of Musical Minis

Today Karen Sherr of Musical Minis (music groups for babies and toddlers) tells us how she started her business. Karen started Musical Minis when her son Matthew was 1 year old – Matthew is now 21 and has a brother Alexander age 19 and sister Emily,16. She also shares some of her experience of franchising…

What inspired you to set up Musical Minis?

I took Matthew to an exercise group where they sang a song at the beginning and the end of each session. This was Matthews’ favourite part. I tried to find a local music group that I could take him to but with no luck. The few I did find were very musical and very strict – the parents had to ensure their children listened to a mixture of music for ½ hour each day. I was looking for a ‘fun’ music group that would not put children off music but would not necessarily teach them rhythm and beat etc.

When Matthew was one year old, I was beginning to miss being surrounded by a ward full of children and being at home with just one. This mixed in with my inability to find a suitable music group to attend (and knowing some of my friends were also interested in finding a music group) led to the launch of Musical Minis.

What is your background?

After school, I did a psychology degree at Warwick University. Then I was employed as a Play Specialist at Great Ormond Street Hospital, on the cardiac unit. Being a Play Specialist involved caring for the emotional, not medical, care of the children – telling them about their operations, why it was necessary, what would happen to them and also emotionally supporting the child’s parents and siblings. I had intended to return to Great Ormond Street after having Matthew but I didn’t like the idea of being with other peoples children whilst leaving my own. Also now being a Mum, I’m not sure I would have coped supporting parents of very ill children.

How did you go about setting the company up?

Musical Minis was based on what I wanted as a Mum for my child. At first, it was a group I could attend with Matthew. A few of my friends came with their children. I devised the programme, bought the equipment, hired the hall, took out insurance etc. We had one session (3/4 hour) a week. Patricia Elson, a leader at the exercise group I took Matthew to, came on board as my partner – if she took the class, Matthew and I could fully benefit from participating in the class.

When Musical Minis was established, I had no idea that so many parents would wish their children to join. It soon became apparent that we had a proper business.

How did you finance the initial company?

We financed it ourselves out of our savings. We ploughed all the money we made from the classes back into the business for a number of years.

Did you do all the work yourself?

Locally the business took off very quickly. The number of children attending grew rapidly. Our first franchise was in September 1997. This was 7 years after we set up locally. The delay was due to the fact that we wanted to set up everything legally before we offered the franchise for sale. We had to register our trademark – we became embroiled in a dispute which we won, but the process took a long time. Our music needed to be cleared – we hired a recording studio with a male and female singer, so we own the recordings. We then had to create the lesson tapes, apply for a licence to the Mechanical Copyright Protection Society (MCPS), duplicate the tapes and pay the required Royalties.

We wanted to make sure everything was correct before setting up franchises. We liaised with lawyers to create a franchise agreement, wrote Operating and Training Manuals which we made sure could be understood and easily used. We ran (and still do) our own sessions so any problem or guidance our franchisees have or need we can offer first hand experience.

How did you manage in terms of childcare in the beginning?

The nature of Musical Minis has allowed me to take the children with me, so childcare wasn’t an issue. Matthew loved attending Musical Minis. The preparation before each class was something he could be part of and it just became a normal part of his life. As the weeks went on, we ran more sessions in more venues and he could always come along and be part of it.

After a few months I became pregnant. I worked throughout my pregnancy but took on an additional member of staff so I could have a few weeks off after the baby was born. Alex and Emily both were born into a life involving Musical Minis. The children did not see me as a businesswoman as to them, I was doing the same as all other Mums. As they have got older they realised this wasn’t the case.

You offer Musical Minis as a franchise opportunity for other Mums – was that always the long-term aim of the business? How did you know it was time to franchise?

No. It was originally started as a small local group where I could take Matthew. As the demand became apparent the business grew. We started to consider franchising when we were approached by mums who attended our classes and then moved out of the area.

How did you go about setting up all the legal/documentation side of the franchise?

The Franchise Agreement was written by a law firm whilst we used a specialist trade mark company to register the name and logo of Musical Minis. We were lucky enough to be introduced to a music publisher who helped us with matters of music clearance, My husband Rob acted as our representative on these matters. He also wrote the Operating Manual whilst myself and Pat Elson wrote the Training Manual with the support of Pat’s husband Roy who is a personnel specialist.

Did you have legal/professional help?

We continue to use professional help as required. Unfortunately we have had to call on lawyers to help with trade mark infringement and other legal disputes. Our accountants have also been helpful, providing advice as we have grown.

What has been the best bit of free PR/Marketing you've had?

One of our franchisees had an article printed about her in Red magazine.

What has been the biggest hurdle you've had to overcome with the business?

At first the financial outlay and time involved seemed as though possibly we had taken on too much. Now, 20 years on, we are starting to be able to take money out of the business and not have to reinvest it. I know we could have grown much quicker and have many more franchisees but we have kept the business growth small to fit in with the family. Also we wanted to be able to fully support each franchisee. I can’t think of any other job I’d rather be doing and I’m not the type to stay at home all day

How do you fit running the business around family life now?

As the children have got older it is easier to fit in running the business around family life, even though the business is growing. Trying to get the right balance was the hardest challenge. I was keen to ensure that I fit Musical Minis around my children and not the children around Musical Minis. By way of example it was important for me that I finish Musical Minis a week before the end of my children’s Nursery term at Christmas, in order that I would be able to go to their Christmas shows.

What is the biggest benefit for your family with you being self-employed?

There was not a day when I could not take the children to school and be there to collect them. I am sure they benefited from the fact that I felt entirely fulfilled through the combination of being a full time Mum and running my own business. I have in recent years been able to take a reasonable sum out of the business and my three teenagers are certainly making sure they benefit from this!

Next Monday 7th June, Karen will be sharing her top ten tips for starting a business as a mum. Why not sign up for updates to Business Plus Baby  (by email or RSS) to make sure you don't miss it?

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